Childhood Trauma & Sexual Abuse: Moving Through It One Note at a Time: Ageless Author Kyeni Matee: “The Eyes Behind The Violin: Finding My Identity” ENCORE Episode

In light of the disturbing and seemingly relentless news surrounding child exploitation, abuse, and trafficking, we are revisiting a powerful and deeply moving conversation that feels more urgent than ever.

From high-profile allegations involving public figures to devastating revelations within trusted institutions, the message is clear – this is not isolated, and it is not rare. Statistics show that 1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys experience childhood sexual abuse. Experts believe the real numbers are far higher, as most cases go unreported. The most vulnerable are children between the ages of 7 and 13.

Our guest, Kyeni Matee (pronounced Chain-ee), knows this reality firsthand.

A professional violinist, youth orchestra teacher, and new author, Kyeni courageously shares her story of abuse that began when she was just seven or eight years old and continued for years. In her book, The Eyes Behind the Violin: Finding My True Identity, she chronicles not only the trauma, but the long road toward healing.

Music became her lifeline. Therapy helped her process. Faith anchored her survival.

This episode is not easy—but it is necessary.

Kyeni’s story is one of resilience, truth-telling, and reclaiming identity after it has been stolen. It is also a call to action. We cannot remain silent. If you see something, say something. Teach children to trust their instincts. Protect them. Believe them.

This conversation honors survivors—and reminds us why accountability matters.

Content Warning: This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse and may be difficult for some listeners.

Support Resources
This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse and may be difficult for some listeners.

If you or someone you love needs support:

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) – call or text 988
• RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline – 800-656-hope
• If you are outside the U.S., please contact your local crisis or child advocacy center.